South Eastern Trust offers help for those coping with grief at Christmas
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These are the words of South Eastern Health and Social Care Trust’s Bereavement Co-ordinator Paul McCloskey as National Grief Awareness Week is acknowledged from December 2 to 8, with its aim to provide a period for individuals and communities to address the many heart rending aspects of grief.
“Coping at Christmas or indeed at any time of the year can be emotionally difficult,” explained Paul.
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Hide Ad“It is important to acknowledge the loss, and understand that in some ways Christmas won’t be the same.
"Choose the people you want to spend time with, ask for and accept help from those who know you best. Whilst grief is a universal experience people can grieve differently, even within the same family, how we respond to the death of someone close to us can be quite different.”
Over the coming days the Bereavement Outreach Team will be circulating leaflets to public areas across Trust facilities entitled ‘Coping at Christmas When You Are Grieving,’ which includes information and suggestions that might prove helpful to those who have experienced a recent bereavement.
As for the Trust staff who provide care in and around the time of death, they are very aware that competent, compassionate care can impact positively on the bereavement experience of families.
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Hide Ad“Families often have a super memory for what I call the little big things, the listening ear, the cups of tea, and the hand on the shoulder or literally sometimes the shoulder to cry on,” continued Paul. “All those things make a huge difference.
“When we speak to families in the days following the death of a loved one we are often asked by them to thank colleagues who were involved in their care.
"Knowing that they and their loved one received professional and compassionate care in and around the time of death is a memory that stays with them through their bereavement journey.”